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Monday, August 11, 2008

The talk

I just got a text from a good friend that read "Going to meet the ex--he wants to talk."

They've been broken up for a couple of months and although she seems to be getting on without him, he doesn't.

I've been there. Broken up with someone, then regretted it, then fallen into a can't eat, can't sleep period of blue. I've also endured the "Can we talk?"...talk. Those talks always ended the same way for me. In a split second I'd be overwhelmed by pure attraction and within minutes all was forgiven--until one or two days later when the same, heavy issues surfaced all over again. Sometimes, talks are just about a quick fix, more of an "I miss you" impulse than anything else. Jumping head first into the same old situation ultimately doesn't solve anything. After all, there was a reason for the split, right? Then again, sometimes "talks" actually do the trick and help clear the slate for round two.

Do you believe in second chances?

9 comments:

agcreatives said...

hhh don't know mam kafoy naman ng second chance if #$%hole ghapon hehehe but I do believe some talk do the trick

Anonymous said...

hello yads!
ayaw pud tawn ko i-delete forever uy. ka-usa ka nalang ha. mao na diay nay uso karon? hehehe!

bitaw yads, i do believe in second chances although it's easier said than done. but i do believe that talking about the issue and finding resolutions would stop the same issue to surface again.

ANGELROCHE said...

ako yads kani ra akon bana tagaan nako sigeg chance ai. unlike with all the Ex's tagaan tuod og 2nd chance pero gabinuang nako, di na tinuod ang feelings ba. hay yads, mabuang jud ta aning gugma oi.

Eva Marie said...

hello adie....bitaw...kung wala ayo ko gibati og gugma kai kiver ang second chance. pero kung gibati ko og gugma kai mura perti jud daghana chances akong mahatag. heheheh

Eva Marie said...

halu yadz jacy! heheheh. hehehe. sige nalang tika idelete forever oi. maluoy ko nimu kai gi-delete baya ka sa uban katawhan...mura kita jud kaha 3 ni chrissy ang una niya gi-delete yadz...waaahhh! suya siya sa atong kaanyag. hehehehe

i believe in second chances yadz kung gibati ko og gugma pero kung wala gani, kiver jud! hehehe

Eva Marie said...

halu roche! musta naman ka mam? heeheh

mao jud...kani ra pud akong bana sige nako hatagan og 2nd chances...katong uban nakong mga kiki kai kiver jud! it's their loss kung magsige lang sila og binuang. hehehe

hermz said...

I do believe in second chances (oh well as long there was no beating involved, otherwise, GTH!) lol

Eva Marie said...

mao jud dai... basta di lang ka pasakitan kai mag world war 3 jud kung mahitabo na. heheh

Wena said...

hahahahha...i used to believed in 2nd chances but the problem is....how many second chances we will have and we will give?

by the way yadz...have a great night diha and chika ta next time ha..naputol manko last nite oi=(mwahh~~~